Christmas break started Thursday, December 22. I started off
very productive – with a visit to the dental office. Then I began blogging.
Sweet.
I expected to declutter my room and storage and really make
progress on my side hustle during this 10-day break. Then, sadly, Murphy (you
know, the creator of Murphy’s law) came to visit.
What happened was my cousin, Rina, was found dead in her
apartment on Thursday afternoon. Congestive heart failure due to pneumonia.
Early 40s. Completely unexpected.
So, now I’m helping to pack up her apartment and that got me
thinking about my own state of affairs.
I haven’t finished my will. Well, it’s written but not
notarized or filed with any attorney. I don’t have a health directive completed.
I have asked my aunt to be in charge of my affairs after I die, and I’ve
notified my mother that I asked my aunt to do that. However, if it’s not on
paper, it didn’t happen. That’s the legal rule of life.
So, today, I’m decluttering my room for a few hours before I
return to Rina’s apartment to help pack up hers. I want to have less stuff so
that when I go, it will be easy on people. That’s no reflection on Rina, her
life seemed very simple and it’s been easy to pack up so far.
However, I have boxes and boxes of books and papers.
Sometimes an important piece of paper is mixed in with all the memoirs, old
teaching materials, etc. So I need to filter that stuff so family won’t have to
throw away something important by accident, or worry that they did.
Fortunately, my financial papers are the one bright spot in
my paper-life. Well organized and recognizable.
So, this Christmas eve, I urge you to do like me. Declutter
your space and finish your end-of-life documents. Help out those who will be
left to finish the job after you.